According to Statistics Canada, one out of every five Canadians over the age of 45 is providing unpaid care for a senior. While distance care-giving comes with many challenges, a few helpful tips can make it easier to provide support and care to an aging parent.
When you do have the chance to visit an elderly parent, make the most of those in-person visits. Check your parent's home to ensure it's in good shape. If he or she is having mobility issues, add some modifications that will make the home safer.
Take the time to meet with your parent's doctors. Ask questions that will help you learn more about his or her current condition. After meeting with the physician, it will become easier to manage your parent's care from a distance.
Technology offers many ways to stay connected with aging parents. Consider creating an online group that includes your parents, as well as extended family members. Open a Skype account for your parents and teach them how to use it so you can video chat with them weekly to see how they are doing.
Consider setting up a security system in your parent's home that has wireless cameras. These systems can be monitored online, allowing you to keep track of your parent's daily movements. You can even use technology to keep track of your parent's medical records with software and apps.
Even when you can't be with your aging parents, you can create a support system of individuals who are nearby. Consider hiring someone to check on your parents regularly to note any physical or cognitive changes.
If your parents are unable to drive, set up senior transportation for them so they have a safe way to get out of their home. Many communities provide meal delivery services for seniors. Consider this option if your parents aren't up to taking care of meal preparation.
Distance caregiving can be difficult, but it's not impossible. With some thought and careful planning, you can still take care of your parents, even if you live far away.
